"Poor communication skills can
condemn you to a life of mediocrity and
frustration. Good communication skills
can unlock your dreams of success."
Dr. Robert A. Tracz

When you're dancing someone assumes the lead and keeps it. In communication someone assumes the lead and it changes.

Watch two individuals connected in conversation. They'll speak at the same rate, in the same tone and even use similar words. When one speeds up, so does the other.

Two unconnected individuals however don't have this level of connection. In fact they are not similar at all.

My point is, when you're conversing with someone, think about dancing - who's leading? Watch the lead shift to and fro. Now you've got the beat.